But most men today are not sensitive lovers, all they care about is there pleasure and putting a video out there. Could care less if there partner enjoys the act at all, all they want is to humiliate so they have control. So called men today have no confidence in them selves, and it shows in everything they do, such a shame that they have no ideal that treating a woman with love and respect, everything they want would be given willingly.
Done right, they all learn to love it (unless they have IBS or painful hemorrhoids). Trust, patience, and lots of lube (especially in the beginning) are all that’s needed - assuming you’re a sensitive lover. And make sure to diddle her clit, or get het to do it herself. Once she’s had an orgasm with anal, she will want it again and again.